My cozy home

A little over a month ago, when I was home in Munich for my birthday, I went to IKEA and bought some new furniture for my apartment. I had gotten all the basics when I first moved here, but there are still improvements to be done here and there, such as the lack of couch table in my living room or the lack of pictures on the wall in my bedroom.

My parents finally got around to dropping off my furniture at my apartment this past weekend (as I don’t have a car), and I spent most of Sunday afternoon and Monday evening assembling it. Until now, I had thought I wasn’t any good at assembling furniture but it actually went pretty well. So let me show you around to see the changes I made to my apartment.

I finally bought two DVD shelves to put all of my DVDs in. As it turns out, I have space for about one more DVD before I need a third shelf. I wasn’t sure whether I would be able to place the shelf to the left of the wooden beam but luckily it worked out perfectly. Before, I had some DVDs in my TV shelf and the rest of them in a cardboard box so this is a huge improvement.

I got a new Expedit 2×2 shelf, which is half the size of the one I have in my office. As you may have noticed, even though my living room did not look like it was missing any furniture, I had no storage space whatsoever there. I was not sure where I would put it but the space right by the window works perfectly. Seriously, almost like it was custom-made to fit into that precise corner of my living room. I have not decided yet what to fill it with, but I am so excited about finally having storage space in the living room. I am using one of the pitchers I bought at the flea market in June as a bookend for my cookbooks, and the other as decoration on top of the shelf.

I had not planned on getting this dresser and originally wanted to put the Expedit shelf in this corner, but it was 50% off during IKEA’s midsummer sales, and I simply fell in love with the design so I had to get it. I think it looks super cute in my living room. On display on top of the dresser are another pitcher and the wooden tray and coasters set that I also got at the flea market that weekend.

As I had no more space for the chair in my living room, I moved it into my office. I was also considering putting it into my bedroom, but didn’t have the space there. I put it right next to my book shelves thinking that it’d look so inviting to just grab a book and sit down for some reading. I also got the little side table for the little couch (which converts into a mattress) for guests to use as a bedside table. You can see the vase I got at the flea market here. I am planning on buying some plastic flowers to put into that vase.

I just made some small changes in the bedroom. I got a new chair for my dressing table as the back of the plastic one I was using broke. A while ago, (unrelatedly) I also decluttered my dressing table and moved a lot of beauty products I don’t use regularly to my closet. It makes such a big difference and the table looks so much neater. I also got a new trash can which is actually the same one I had before, except it’s white, which I thought would be a little less obtrusive than the previous one which was red. I also got a new bedside table, which is actually the same one I had before except it’s not pink! Tiny improvements, mostly in color, but so worth it!

I loved my living room before I had the new furniture but I really love it now. It’s super cozy and definitely my favorite room in this apartment. I still need a couch table but it’s hard to find one that I really like (and can afford). But other than that, I am happy with the living room the way it is.

Now I have a question for you guys: I am not at all a fan of having power cords all over but there are some corners where the cables just keep adding up (notably one of the corners in my living room and under my bedside table). How do you handle this? Any secrets you’d like to share as to how to hide cables from view in your apartment?

River surfing and frozen yogurt

My friend Tammy, who I originally met back when I was still blogging on LiveJournal, spent a few days in Munich this week. On Wednesday we met up for the second time after seeing Harry Potter 7.2 together on Monday night, and we had a great time. For once, it was a gorgeous, warm summer day and we really took advantage of the sunshine.

Because she had asked me if we have frozen yogurt in Munich, I found out that, in fact, we do. Some googling turned up a place that just opened in May. It was opened by a college graduate who discovered frozen yogurt while studying abroad in the States and decided that Munich needs a frozen yogurt place (yes, yes it does).

Frozen yogurt

Of course we had to go there to try it. It was absolutely fantastic and I will definitely be going back regularly. In fact, I went back the very next day with another friend of mine, who loved it too. I am so glad I found this place. Delicious frozen yogurt and great interior as well. Totally a new favorite.

Frozen yogurt in MunichAfterward, we took a walk through the English Garden, which is a gorgeous park in town, and went to the Eisbach (ice creek) to watch the surfers there for a while. Fun fact: Jason Mraz’s ‘Make It Mine’ music video was filmed here and at other Munich locations. Definitely one of my favorite places in Munich that I was happy to show my friend.

Eisbach surfersSo much fun and one of those days that reminded me how many friends I have made through blogging.

On anonymity in a small town

Well, let’s face it, there isn’t any.

That is one of the things hardest to get used to since moving to a small town: the lack of anonymity. I grew up in a big city and being among large crowds of people is what I am used to. I like being anonymous, knowing that people are not watching me, or if they are, I am not likely to see them again. I like being able to do what I want without being judged by someone I see regularly.

B-town is so different in that regard. It’s a tiny town with a population of under 5,000, where people say hello to each other on the streets. The town is very small, not just in terms of space, but also in terms of everyone knowing everyone. I am pretty sure there is no such thing as six degrees of separation in this town, just one degree of separation. Well, maybe two now that I live here. Everyone knows everyone else.

That is something new to me. I never lived in a town small enough for everyone to know everyone else. And I am not sure I like it. The irony is that people who grow up in a small town have a hard time handling the anonymity of life in a big city, because it makes them feel isolated and lonely. For me it is the opposite.

When I first moved here, and went to the local grocery store, they asked if I was new in town and where I lived and worked. I answered their questions truthfully because I thought it would be rude not to, but it made me uncomfortable. I am sure it was completely natural to them and they meant no harm, but to me it felt intrusive, like it was none of their business. One thought that comforted me was that if I was not anonymous there, neither were they.

It would not have occurred to me to say that I was uncomfortable with their questions – knowing that their curiosity is normal for life in a small town and entirely innocent. But I have noticed that even though I answer people’s questions, feeling obligated to, I never ask them back, because I feel like that would be nosy and well, none of my business. I wonder if they interpret that as a lack of interest on my part. They probably do.

Whenever I am back home in Munich, I enjoy being one of hundreds of people on the street, I love how people are not intrusive and stick to their own business. I like being left in my thoughts, not having to talk to strangers. I like being anonymous, one of many, a forgettable face in the crowd. I like that not everyone is going to remember what I did yesterday or what I bought for dinner the other day. And goodness, I like that no one at the grocery store comments* on the amount of empty diet coke bottles I return.

I consider myself a friendly person and I believe in the good in people, but I am usually pretty uncomfortable with strangers striking up conversations with me. It makes me uncomfortable not knowing their motives, even though often enough they are probably entirely innocent.

Maybe that is something I can learn from the people in my small town: learn not to be so mistrustful of strangers, show more interest in others, and embrace the social aspect of living in a small town. And then, when I move back to a bigger city, take that with me. Because like with most things, the truth is probably somewhere in-between.

Does it make you uncomfortable when strangers ask you personal questions? Do you prefer the anonymity of a big city or do you find it perfectly normal for your neighbors to know everything about you and vice versa?

* Yes, that really happened. It made me uncomfortable to return bottles there, knowing I am being judged for how much diet coke I drink and probably for what I eat too. Now that I have cut down on how much diet coke I drink, I feel okay about it, though.

A breathtaking evening

So far, summer in Germany has been pretty disappointing. It has been unusually cold and rainy, with many days not even hitting a high of 70. And after Saturday, which was absolutely gorgeous, Sunday followed with more of that disappointing weather. But sometimes rain makes for the most beautiful sunsets and last night we were doubly blessed with an amazing sunset and the most gorgeous rainbow ever. If you look closely you can even see a second rainbow.

A beautiful evening

A beautiful evening

At the same time, the sun was setting in the west and gave the entire town this beautiful, golden glow. It was still raining so the sun reflected in the wet streets. It was so beautiful.

A beautiful evening

A beautiful evening

Last night was definitely one of the times that I was happy for living out in the country because you don’t often get so see nature as beautiful as this when there are buildings upon buildings blocking your view.

A beautiful evening

This was the first time in my life that I saw a rainbow, complete from one end to the other. I was honestly giddy with excitement.

As the sun set, the sky turned this lovely shade of dusty pink. The rainbow didn’t vanish until it got dark. It was so amazing.

A beautiful evening

And as the sun set into the horizon, the clouds were looking more and more dramatic, like the sky was on fire.

A beautiful evening

It was such a magical evening, one of the most beautiful sunsets I witnessed. And one of the moments that I absolutely loved living in small town Bavaria.